Njengamanje sibonga izazi ze-psychoanalysts ezidumile njengodumile Sigmund Freud, owaseFrance uJean Laplanche noJean-Bertrand Pontalis noma abaseSwitzerland UCarl Gustav Jung ukutolika kwephupho kuyekile ukubonwa njengento engeyona ebucayi futhi sekuyindlela yokwelashwa. Uma unentshisekelo esihlokweni, lapha unesixhumanisi sencwadi yami yokubhekisela kanye nabalobi engibathandayo.
Thola okushiwo amaphupho mahhala kusichazamazwi sethu esikhethekile
Isichazamazwi esisemthethweni sephupho: ukutolikwa ngeke kusaba yimfihlakalo kuwe
Konke okwenzeka kokungazi lutho kwethu lapho siphupha kungasiza ekuxazululeni ukungabaza okuningi esingeke sikwazi ukukuqonda ngesikhathi sokuvuka. Mhlawumbe lesi yisizathu esenza ukuthi abantu bachithe amakhulu eminyaka bephishekela izincazelo zabo ku yazi konke ngengqondo nobuntu bakho.
Yenza ukutolika kwephupho bese uthola ukuthi kusho ukuthini
Okungukuthi, kunjalo amaphupho ahlobene nemvelo yethu, futhi kwesinye isikhathi zibonakala zingokoqobo kangangokuba sibheka incazelo kumlayezo wamaphupho osithumela wona. Uma ufuna ukuthola ungakwenza kanjani ukutolika okulungile kwamaphupho akho chofoza lapha. Siphupha ukuthi siphelelwa ngumsebenzi, kufe ilungu lomndeni noma sihlukane nozakwethu.
Ukuhunyushwa vs incazelo yamaphupho
Ukwazi ukutolika ngokunembile akukho phupho, akudingeki wazi kuphela incazelo yalo, kepha futhi kuyadingeka ukwazi eminye imininingwane ebalulekile umongo lapho zenzeka khona, ngoba incazelo efanayo yephupho ingaba nokuhumusha okuhluke kakhulu kubantu abahlukahlukene ngoba izothonya lokho okushiwo yile ncazelo ngokwendlela oyiyo, umndeni wakho, indawo okuyo, isimo sakho sothando, impilo yakho noma isimo sakho sezimali. Ukwazi incazelo yephupho akufani nokulihumusha.
Ukuhunyushwa kwamaphupho endulo
isazi sefilosofi uPlato noma u-Aristotle Baphinde babhala imibono yabo ngalolu daba ezincwadini ezinjengeRiphabhlikhi yokuqala neyama-About Goals owesibili. Ngaphandle kokukhohlwa lokho, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uPythagoras naye wakhuluma ngalolu daba njengendlela yokuxhumana yezidalwa ezingaphezu kwemvelo. Kamuva kwakuzofika imibono emisha kaCicero noma u-Artemidoro.
Kuyini ukuphupha?
Kepha amaphupho kuphela, ngoba lapho kwakukhona amaphupho amabi ahilelekile, kwathiwa uSathane wawaqalisa futhi ayengakufanele ukuhlaziywa. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ngaphandle kwayo yonke imibono ekhona, lokhu inqubo yokubhula, kusekelwe ezifundweni zikaSigmund Freud. Ukuzama ukuqagela ukuthi kwenzekani ngakithi, nangamaphupho, kubizwa ngokuthi ukuphupha.
I-Psychoanalysis kanye nencazelo kaFreud
Kuwo wonke amaphupho, uFreud unikeze igama elithi ‘amaphupho ajwayelekile’ kulabo abaphindelela kakhulu kithi. Ngalesi sizathu, lapho sihlaziya iphupho, kufanele sithathe yonke imiqondo nemibono esiyibona kulo hhayi ukuhlala neyodwa nje. Ngamafuphi, wathi amaphupho ayindlela eya ngaphakathi kwethu nasezifisweni zethu ezicashile kakhulu.